Navigating conversations about the election can feel challenging, especially when dating in the digital age among a 24-hour news cycle and social media. But, from wanting to vent to wanting to mull solutions, there are several reasons why election happenings might be on your mind. Fortunately, navigating political talk diplomatically is possible, even during upset and unrest. Consider the following tips:
Choose Your Battles
There is something attractive about engaging in a spirited discussion. Some people enjoy vigorous debate; others want to voice their concerns. However, while you might enjoy election talk, only some do. Some people don’t like discussing November 5th, while others view it as a waste of time. Choosing your battles wisely and engaging in political discussion with those who want to engage is vital to a balanced ballot recap.
Be Respectful and Demand Respect
Although people may agree on political issues, they might disagree in other areas, such as why their party lost. These conversations can get contentious, even if coming from a well-meaning place. This is why offering respect and demanding it in return is essential. If a discussion gets too heated or you’re uncomfortable, there’s no shame in changing the subject.
Separate the Politics from the Person
Just because you meet someone on a progressive dating app doesn’t mean you’ll see eye to eye on every topic or issue. Keep this in mind and recognize that disliking someone’s politics should not devolve into a personal attack. While it might seem hard the more controversial politics become, you can still love people even if you don’t love *all* their opinions.
Ask Questions
Asking questions is the most direct way to understand where someone is coming from (while gauging whether or not you’re a good match). Even if you disagree with their stance, learning how they got to their position can help foster empathy. This can also help you find common ground, something fundamental in niche dating.
Agree to Disagree
It can feel impossible to agree or disagree when fiery passions and values are involved, but sometimes, the only solution is to cede the need for a solution. People all have different life experiences and, as a result, possess different opinions and points of view that are unlikely to change no matter how much you try. Recognizing this is key to successful dating; politics are far from the only thing partners will ever disagree on.
Navigating election talk isn’t always easy, not in the progressive dating world or anywhere else. The above tips can help things go smoothly even when the political waters get rough.
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